How Does Alternative Dispute Resolution Work?
Alternative Dispute Resolution (ADR) allows spouses to resolve their divorce in or
out of court.
Litigating divorces often costs a significant amount of time and resources. Many
spouses also find the process incredibly
stressful,
particularly
if
they
desire
an
amicable resolution
with their soon-to-be-ex.
Instead of using litigation, couples can utilize a form of alternative dispute resolution
to negotiate terms for their divorce and
reach
an agreement
outside
the
courtroom.
What Are the Benefits of Using ADR for Divorce?
Using a form of alternative dispute resolution like mediation or collaborative law
to resolve your divorce can have
the following benefits:
-
It Costs Less
– The average divorce in the
U.S. costs around $15,000. Lawyers often charge significantly less for ADR services, and other factors we'll
mention in a moment also serve to
reduce the cost.
-
It's Faster
– When couples focus on negotiation through ADR, they can often resolve their divorce
much more quickly than if they litigated
it in
the
courtroom.
-
It's More Amicable
– Methods of ADR focus on helping parties negotiate and collaborate with each other
to end their marriage, which frequently
results
in
an amicable
resolution
that
both
parties are
happy with.
-
It's More Private
– Because ADR happens outside of the courtroom, it doesn't occur on public record
- which can be particularly useful
during
high-profile divorces.
-
You Have More Control
– If you use ADR to dissolve your marriage, you have more direct control over the
outcome than if you rely on a court
to
decide
matters
on
your behalf.
-
It's Less Stressful
– Generally, ADR leads to more peaceful, mutually beneficial outcomes than litigating
a divorce.
Mediation is perhaps the most popular form of ADR, and many courts require spouses
to engage in mediation before allowing them
to
litigate
their
divorce in court.
In divorce mediation, the parties, together with their attorneys, hire and work with
a mediator who helps the parties reach an
agreement
to resolve
some,
or
even
all
of
the contested
issues.
The parties’
lawyers
then take
that
agreement
to
use to
craft a final
decree of divorce
that a court
can sign to dissolve
the marriage.
Mediators cannot provide legal advice to clients, but must act as a neutral facilitator.
The parties rely on our lawyers to negotiate
on
their
behalf
and for
legal
counsel
during
the
mediation process.
Divorce mediation can occur over as little as a session, or take multiple sessions
to resolve, depending on the case.
What Is Collaborative Law?
Collaborative law is another form of ADR.
To utilize the collaborative law process in Texas, both spouses must hire a collaborative
law attorney. The parties, through their
attorneys,
then
advise
the
court
that
they
will be engaging
in
the collaborative
process
so that
the court
will not
impose
typical
deadlines
and set
the
case for trial.
The parties
and their attorneys
then
proceed
to conduct
a series of
meetings and information
exchanges
to disclose
finances and
negotiate
the terms for divorce.
Collaboration is said to offer couples a more deliberate form of negotiation than
mediation and to be advantageous because
it eliminates
the
mediator
from
the
process.
That may or may not be
an advantage, however. Furthermore, there are disadvantages to collaborative divorce.
Pros & Cons of Collaborative Divorce
At Diggs & Sadler, we offer experienced collaborative process counsel and representation,
but we want our clients to know that we can negotiate collaboratively
and
effectively
without entering into the formal, time-consuming,
potentially
expensive, and
often
one-sided collaborative process.
The collaborative divorce process was designed with the best of intentions, but sometimes
results in one-sided agreements that are not fair to one of the parties
due
to
personality
differences that may be exploited or due to the
lack
of either
a
judge
or mediator’s
involvement.
You can rest assured that our attorneys will not allow you to be taken advantage
of in a collaborative divorce. But you should know that abusive spouses,
when
they
discover that they cannot pull the wool over your eyes
in
the
collaborative
process,
sometimes simply refuse to settle,
wasting
your
time and effort.
We want our clients to know from the start that, if you retain one of our lawyers
to represent you in formal collaborative divorce and that process
should
fail
to
achieve settlement, then the Texas Family Code requires
that
each
party’s lawyer
must withdraw
from the case and each party must then hire a new attorney to litigate. For this
reason, we offer formal collaborative divorce services—but only if
you
know
the
potential
down-side.
Finally, a divorcing party engaging in a formal collaborative process should know
that you do not need to provide a reason for withdrawing from the
collaborative
process.
Our firm is happy to answer your questions
about collaborative divorce.
What Is Arbitration?
Most arbitration takes place in the realm of commercial or business disputes, however,
there are times when family businesses are
governed
by agreements
that
require
the
arbitration
of
disputes
and all matters
related
to
such disputes
and that
situation
can cause parties
to a divorce
case
to be
compelled
to arbitrate
issues
such as
the
valuation
of business
interests. It is
also possible
for
the parties
to agree
to
arbitrate
appropriate
issues
such
as
property characterization,
valuation
and division
with knowledgeable
arbitrators experienced
in such issues,
particularly
where the
issues
are
highly
complex
and knowledgeable
arbitrators
can be chosen to hear them.
When spouses decide to use arbitration, they enter into an agreement to arbitrate
and appoint one or more arbitrators to the
case.
They
present
their
cases
to
that
individual
or
arbitration
panel. The
arbiter
hears the
evidence
and makes
a judgment
on divorce-related
issues,
enabling
the
parties to
divorce
privately
without entering
the
courtroom.
Contact a Houston Divorce Mediation Lawyer
At Diggs & Sadler, our Houston ADR attorneys have decades of experience helping clients mediate, collaborate, arbitrate, and in all situations, to negotiate effective, equitable divorce agreements.
Schedule a consultation with a mediator near you and receive the legal support you deserve. Contact our office online or via phone at (713) 766-5355.